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Can you spot a monkey somewhere here? If yes, do like it 😁

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Monikers… We’ve all been familiar with them. Ever since our birth, we’ve owned more than a dozen such nicknames : Golu, Sweetu, Pintu, Mintu are just to name a few. But those were by the ones who loved or cared and would never really tarnish your self esteem. What I’m trying to talk about are the ones that some people subject us to just because we have some sort of a physical feature which doesn’t yet fit their definition of okay-dokey. I’ve been a proud owner of many such names : Pumpkin, Balloon, Fatso, Fatty, Leech and the weirdest of all, Caterpillar. Some of them were just meant as a way of informal, intimate addressing. Some were meant as derogatory. And others were just because a bunch of guys couldn’t stand me being good friends with the girl they kinda have a crush on so they just had to make me the laughing stock of the class… But what really happened? Did any of those affect me? I wouldn’t lie, but they did at one point of time until I realized, they shouldn’t. Just because someone else calls you something doesn’t necessarily mean you really are or in any way will turn into that thing. Did you notice, every other tree that you come across, every other flower too has a good name and a nickname. Hence people will call you names, it’s pretty much natural and you can’t stop them but you can stop yourself from reacting. .
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So guys, today let’s focus on the things that don’t matter. I can very well enumerate a dozen of them in the form of a bulleted list :

1) Someone calling you names.

2) Someone saying you’re inefficient.

3) Someone judging you.

4) Someone questioning your achievements.

5) Someone calling you “worthless piece of shit”.

6) Someone looking down on your hard work.

7) You not belonging to the “cool ” crowd.

8) High school fiascoes.

9) First crush.

10) Haters.

11) Airport looks.

12) That one extra millilitre of cream in your coffee.

And over the next few days, I’ll be dissecting each one of them one by one.

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Thank you so much people for your love and support. Please continue the same for future.

Took a month long break. Will be back soon.

Thanks guys.

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